MLC was a originally a term used by my C when I started going to her in Sept. If you read through the very amusing, "Midlife for Dummies", he pretty much is it to a tee. He's in his early 40's, he lost his Dad in August, I got the speech about him not caring about me, he took up with a female friend and started texting her constantly (although I lucked out there, she's gay), he basically went from being a caring husband to a rebellious teenager who was saying to me in no uncertain terms, "I'm not doing it your way anymore and I don't care what you think."

My comments about feeling repulsive to him earlier were just me having a pity party at the time. Although I do feel that way, I don't blame anyone for it. I mean, a person can't help feeling what they're feeling and if he doesn't feel that way towards me...then he doesn't. And I'll live with it until I don't want to anymore.


Married - 19 years
Noticed Problem - Aug 2008
THE Conversation - Oct 2008

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.