The one thing I have discovered during this process is that I am not as interested in the outward appearance - although I admit that I DO appreciate the female form! I have found that I am more attracted to the intellengence and love of life that a woman can show me. That, and I look for a sparkle in the eyes - whatever color they may be.
Won't bore you with my self description other than blue eyes, starred with green in the center - and a sparkle!