Thanks, guys. We'll the wicked witch of the easat is still not done. I am spending this evening with D16, and she's going to NYC with me on Tuesday. Apparently, her bulimia is still an issue. STBX called this morning to talk to S10, and told me D16 "needs constant supervision", which I'm sure she does. She then adds "This is a terrible burden on me"! Mommy dearest. A burden to make sure your child is OK. I did not say, but of course felt like saying: "Hey bi&ch. This is what you signed us all up for". Had I been at home, this "terrible burden" would be shared, but of course, I wouldn't be able to meet her standards for any kind of "constant supervision".