Whatis had another wonderful family evening last night. We went to a gathering of old friends, two other families that STBX and I had hung out with for the last 18 years. We used to vacation together and each family has two children the same ages. When we split I had some concerns about attending our get togethers, these were initially STBX's friends and the wives still are some of her closest friends. Yesterday I decided to go and show these friends that I have not forgotten them. We all had a wonderful time and I didn't get home till 1:00am. We all carried on just like before although it's not like before. I guess it's another weird episode in the separated life of Whatis. How do you just toss aside people you've known for so long? I've always thought that the best thing to do in this surviving mode is to let go of the bad but try and hold on to what was good. By doing so, I continue to realize that there are people who really do care and will be there if you need them. One of STBX's friends asked me if I'd like take my girls shopping next week with her and her girls, that's nice. So, I carry on guys!
