I too believe your h will return to the states. I have spent time in China and it's way way different. I would think the newness would wear off after awhile.

Your h needs to be on this journey right now. It seems he felt he was missing out on life.

You have been so strong NLT, but remember don't waste too much time on ex. Life has so much more to offer you.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"