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[hoosiermama]

(((((((((Hmama)))))) if people are supportive of H while he's commiting adultery, they have their values screwed up.

If you have a pity party, I'd come to it & I'd bring kleenex.

I wish I could do more. I care about you. You're such a special & valuable person.

Keep journaling, I think it does help.

Hugs

Thanks, cookie. I don't think they're so much supportive of his adultery as they are willing to overlook it. With me, it's just awkward. The same thing happened after I lost the second baby; folks rallied around for the first loss, with the second it was just too much. They called me Job, they felt bad for me, but didn't know what to do or say so they stayed away. It's easier to be with a charming person who's being a selfish jerk than to be with someone who's hurting.