Glam, Please do not call or tm your h again asking about his timeline when it comes to seeing your or your children. Their memories are mush and they are like teenagers....who forget time or dates of appointments.
Yes, your h expects a lot from you. Why? Because you are the adult in this scenario and also rational. He knows, deep down, that you will take care of everything in respect to the home, children, etc. Unfortunately when they are in crisis, you cannot expect one thing from them on any given day. This is where you have to drop the rope....expectations. Your h isn't the h you knew who was responsible pre-crisis. Right now, depression has him and w/depression comes, loss of time, memory and all of the other responsibile things he once did.
So, Glam, please do not contact him again. Make a Plan B and if your h shows up, shelve Plan B. If he doesn, Plan B is pulled out and you go on w/your life. Life doesn't sit still for them and it shouldn't for you either.
2009 should be the year of Glam!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
