Years ago while I was severely depressed my friends and family would emphasize how much I had.. my children, my husband, my extended family, my friends.. everything I should be grateful for. Something to focus on while I was stuck in a well of darkness. My internal response was that they had no idea what I was going through.
With this divorce, they say the same thing.. and I do to. I focus on what I have, what I am grateful for.
Folks who have been where you are tell it like it is. But this is your ball of wax that you can shape into any form you want.
How goes the divorce process? Is it moving along faster now that you have someone in your life? Do you find you're letting go of the anger you felt at your wife so that you can close this deal? Have you consulted a lawyer so you know what the traditional settlement is?
Just as anger can cloud your vision in dealing with the divorce, so can lightning in a bottle. When you sign the papers, that's it... no changes. Make sure you know what you're agreeing to.. and that you are at peace.
