Thanks. I get it. You've had some bad experiences and that has tempered you. I certainly understand your advice, and will be careful, but proceed on course. Thanks, Michelle. It is GAL on steroids.
FLTC, the worst experience I suffered was because I let my endorphines rule my brain! I convinced myself that even though it was a risk I could handle it. I didn't count on the hurt and pain I felt when my little dream world collapsed. Now, you are NOT in a situation like I was but you have convinced yourself that you are over your W, you aren't because that takes longer than a few months. I can hear those endorphines pumping in everything you write about this new lady and that's OK, it's an amazing feeling to be validated by a great lady, you and I have lived through years of being crapped on day in and day out so I'm with you here. My point is just NOT to let this R stop you from GALing or keep you from activities that you may already have established. Don't put all your confidence and available time into this woman right now. Go slow and make sure you aren't expecting more from her than she can really give. I'm tempered for a reason and I don't want you to learn as I did. Fair enough?
