Snodderly,

Thanks I know I sounded a little nuts last night but sometimes it builds up and I need to vent. I don't know what I would do if I had not found this website. I am going to go to my brothers he's got a hot tub as well. I need to let loose a little and not being around her I can relax, not having to be "on"!

I find it a little tough with her in the house because I see her living a separate life, if she wasn't in the house I wouldn't be confronted with it daily. I know on the other hand it gives me a chance for positive contact.

One interesting thing I want an opinion on is, since she dropped the bomb she took pictures of us down.But by our computer she has left a picture of us on the desk. Today she cleaned up the study and I see the picture of us still there beside the monitor. Think this means anything or am I over thinking again? She uses the computer all the time and would see this picture everyday.

Last edited by Jeff3; 12/28/08 06:33 AM.

ME 44
W 32
M 5 T 6

no kids

June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me

Summer 08 EA
31/10/08 Confirmed PA