Making my own good karma!!

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, 25.

That's a great idea to maybe do a small thing when he's not there, if there's ever a time he's not there that is, because he should be here most evenings and weekends. I will see if an opportunity to do that arises.

If I helped it would not be because it's any great joy for me to do it. H is a bit of a drill sergent when in "project mode" so it wouldn't be "fun". It would really be because I feel I should. But today, H was going to do some work, but his back is really bothering him because he wrenched it getting my car out of the ditch the other day, so he ended up just coming by and giving S17 a few things to work on this week while he is still out of school. As H left, I just came out and told him that I would leave this all as his baby, and stay out of his way, and trust that if he needs anything from me, he will tell me so. I also told him that it was not my intention to leave him in the lurch, so please don't hesitate at all to ask. He said that was just fine.

So, next weekend H plans to go up to the ranch to do some stuff up there and he said he will bring back some of the stuff I want from up there. Then the weekend after, he is leaving free to help me move (i.e. take apart and put together furniture, TV, computer, etc....).

My plan is now to go very dim. Not dark, because we have been getting along very cordially. But I am NOT going to initiate any contact unless absolutely necessary. And I am going to look for something else to add to my GAL repertoire......

Thank you so much, 25, for "adopting" me. You wise advice and support are a lifeline to me!!

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