I am not that type of person either and I tend to be very prompt and phone to confirm, etc.

I have learned that in MLC, these men are like rebellious teenagers and will rebel, and that means not calling, not showing up, forgetting from one minute to the next..........

It is hard to understand because we are rational. These men have so many things swirling around in their heads. My h still has trouble remembering things from one minute to the next. I have learned to let it go and when he asks the same question a few minutes later, I try to be as polite as possible and tell him again.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19