This is where you must back off, I think. No contacting him anymore to see where he is. He probably gets upset and thinks you are being like a mother toward him.
You get my drift.............
I know you are not but that is the way they think.
Think of it as a test and let it be.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19