And I can't blame you - I would feel the exact same way being lied to like that. There is no excuse, unacceptable.
Be mad, but and maybe you do need to confront H, but do it on your terms. Don't go in hurt and vulnerable - tell all of us on here, let it completely out, and then take the necessary steps with a clear head.
You will be so much better off, so much happier, and you will do it on YOUR terms.
I know right now you probably want to tear out his eyeballs with your toenails, but hang on!