He is trying to justify OW to the kids and his family.
Is this not the sickest thing? "
Trusting, Why do you assume this? Probably it is NOT about you. I am betting this is far less about you and much more about H and OW.
It sounds as if their R has moved into the realm of non-fairy tale and is on the road to self-destruction. Next year this time is likely to be very different for your H.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
