I know I said I would stop snooping, but for some reason I HAD to do that today. I logged on to H's facebook account and he hadn't closed his last chat window which of course was with the OW. It basically confirmed what I thought was going on all along. They even talked about a house that they looked at!
The funny thing is that I can hear his insecurities in the convo. He asked her if she really loved him, he asked her for permission to look at some cowboy boots to purchase. I think I figured out why he hasn't been spending money lately. She is giving him money.
This really isn't any information that I didn't already suspect and I don't know how I feel right now. I must confront him, I just don't know how. How can I say I know without revealing my sources?
