Believe me it's a big tool, loads of power, but it will remain in its case until W specifies the job.
Tomorrow we off out of town with the IL's to visit family, it just happens to be the town where W met OM but that won't be an issue cos OM was from another town so not likley to bump into anyone, plus I know W covered her tracks pretty well over there. We out there doing the family stuff and visiting W extended family.
Funny thing W still avoiding any family who knows our recent history, so thats most of my family over here plus her brother and his W, but that somthing she will need to deal with in her own time.
So as I posted before all is quiet no drama, heading towards the new year in the right frame of mind.