Yesterday went ok, I dropped D off at W friend for the pantomine, Friends brother and his BIL were there so instead of dashing off I spent half an hour there having some guy talk. In the old days it would have been about women, beer and football, but yesterday we chatting about doctors, diabetes, and high blood pressure (I thinking it's a sign of our ages).
I did my xmas shopping, I worked to my list and didn't get side tracked, that way shopping is no problem. (women take heed).
I did and hour at the gym, that was tough, need to be careful I don't lose anymore conditioning over the christmas period.
That last part of my plan for the day which was to relax was interupted cos W wanted me to accompany her back to the shops as she is behind with her xmas shopping. Needless to say even though we had a list we seemed to be wandering around aimlessly. I'm on the list but she hasn't gotten my present yet.
Anyway when we'd given up on the shopping W said we needed to relax to gether at home in the bedroom and spend some quality time together (Hmm... think I've heard that before). So our quality time consisted of W and I watching TV, some small talk about getting my xmas present (I have to pick it up myself) and then... wait for it..... she fell asleep. I didn't get annoyed cos I could see that one coming a mile off.
What I didn't see coming was this morning W alarm went off early (she hadn't adjusted it for later start on Sunday) so instead of going back to sleep she instigated a bit on "nudge, nudge". It was a nice change but I thought I wasn't allow under any circumstances to touch her in the mornings.
(Any thoughts on if I should remind her of that. )
Hey Lan....if I read this correctly, she initiated SEX????? Go with the flow my friend. Don't worry about her morning rule. I am sure that was a weekday rule anyway! Hope you enjoyed it!
Yesterday ended badly, W and I had a big bust up, it's a long story but basically W was upset cos when I went to pick up my present from the store, using her car, I didn't come straight home, the details behind that are all blah, blah, blah. Anyway the argument went from her exaggerating about my time away from home, to her nit picking about things I hadn’t done, to a full blown row. To be honest I wasn't really arguing back I was just pointing out the inconsistencies in her line of attack, and her inaccurate details. It ended with her saying that "I had a [censored] answer for everything, and that I was full of [censored]". Charming.
Normally I am the one to smooth things over with a phone call but today I wasn't going to bother, but then W called me and asked if I'm ok, I replied no actually, I'm not and I told her she was out of order yesterday. W said she was angry with me, I replied it's ok to show anger and disappointment but there was no need for the language she used. W thought about it and said maybe she had gone over the top, and she apologised.
Anyway to cut this short and not to bore you with the details I initially thought W phoned to give an heartfelt apology, but actually she just wanted me back on board cos she's panicking cos she hasn't got all of her xmas shopping done and she needs my help to run around and pick up stuff. For instance she was just going to buy FIL vouchers for a department store, I told her not to be silly, men don't like vouchers they like tools and gadgets so I've gone out and picked up an inexpensive gadget for FIL. She need my help for other things as you can see earlier I even had to go out and pick up my own present.
So I'm still going with the flow and not creating waves.
Lanzo
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing
Silent night, holy night.. All is calm, all is bright.....
All quiet on the home front, D7 has gone to bed after leaving out a drop of sherry and a mince pie for Santa. W is wrapping presents, so I'd just like to wish you all a very Merry Christmas !!!
All still quiet here, W playing "Brain Training" on her new Red DS, D7 playing "Ninten Dogs" on new her Pink DS, I didn't get a DS I got a power drill so I can't do much with it at this hour. So I'm just browsing the net and checking the forums, I'm checking in now cos I'm bored.
Oh I just remembered 12 months since I last snooped on W phone, thats an achievement. Actually I couldn't anyway as she now has a fancy touch screen phone and I don't know how to use it.
Believe me it's a big tool, loads of power, but it will remain in its case until W specifies the job.
Tomorrow we off out of town with the IL's to visit family, it just happens to be the town where W met OM but that won't be an issue cos OM was from another town so not likley to bump into anyone, plus I know W covered her tracks pretty well over there. We out there doing the family stuff and visiting W extended family.
Funny thing W still avoiding any family who knows our recent history, so thats most of my family over here plus her brother and his W, but that somthing she will need to deal with in her own time.
So as I posted before all is quiet no drama, heading towards the new year in the right frame of mind.
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