Jon..you sound like me in that "how to be a friend but not a pushover or seem like I'm cool with the cake eating"..I guess just be who WE are, be nice, but not overly nice and certainly not be nice about anything pertaining to the A..like you cut off the convo about the OM's wife..like you care or WANT to hear that!

Just my thoughts..I'm right there with you \:\)

Tawnya

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