Ok so I call ex h at his work since that is what he suggested. We talked briefly. He mentioned that s20 was trying to get a hold of him. I haven't spoke to s20, so didn't know about that.
Ex h told me a little about what he was doing. Asked if s20 and I could come visit. He said we are always welcome.
He was working, so he had to go and ended the call by saying thank you for calling, I love you!
More weirdness, but think this was more out of culture or past history than anything else. His family was always good about showing their love and vocalizing it. I think it was more of me like a sis or family member than anything else. Afterall, I had been immersed in his family for 17 years and at a very young age.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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