If he's going to file, he will. However, there is absolutely nothing you can do to change his mind. Let me explain it this way, the more you try to rationalize w/him about it, the more determined he's going to be to file. You are pushing and he's pulling away. Just let things be for now. The time to discuss the filing is when you get the papers and then have to do something about them. Until you get them, I'd just go on about my business.
If he raises the issue tomorrow, then talk, but if he doesn't, don't you raise the issue. Follow his lead on this. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
