It's Complicated! Part 2

[25yearsmlc]

GG,
be careful what you suggest to your h...every way he looks at things show you are trying to change him which means he's all bad and you are judging, blah blah blah....

tread lightly. But again, I might ask, "h, is THIS re-reading, etc helping you get past the anger?" It's obviously a cheeseless tunnel he keeps looping back into. And IF he had an A, or whatever he did that hurt you in the first place, maybe you can remind him that IF you were to do the same thing, over and over, you'd go nuts. YOU Let things go...and YOU are happy again....(where's my hammer?)

You forgave your exh....geez, you'd think he'd think things through. But maybe you have to back off for him to figure out what seems so obvious.
j