FG Snodderly is right. What does a C know that God doesn't know? All of this takes time and lots of it. It's been over 2 yrs for me and h and he is just starting to come around.

Time has no bearing on whether they return. It's when they heal and deal with their issues that makes a difference.

Don't bring up D unless that is what you want. Be still and let God. Your h is holding onto anger just like mine is.

Good things can happen, it just takes time.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"