FG, First off, I don't think your IC knows what will or will not happen. True two years is quite a while for anyone to be floating in the universe. However, I've seen them be gone for 2,3,4,5 years or even longer and then wake up. So, unless you are really ready to give up and move on w/your life, then take what the IC said w/a grain of salt.
As for speaking to your h about the divorce papers, let it go. Unless he raises the issue, I wouldn't say another word about it. The more you push this talk, the more he's going to say he wants a divorce, etc.
About him moving in w/his father, something may have come up and he just didn't get around to doing it when he said he would. Your expectations of him are still quite high and you need to lower the bar to zero. When they are in crisis, they say they are going to do something, but if something more interesting comes along or the fog grabs them, what they said they would be doing goes on the back burner.
For now, sit still and allow the man upstairs to work on him. Do not raise the issue of divorce again, unless, of course you are ready to move out on it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
