nlt, The fuel for the Mother Ship will eventually run out. The euphoria of this move will wear off and he will miss all of the things he had here in the States. He will begin to miss family, friends, etc.
Yes, he's been abducted, but he will return one day. Who knows what he'll be like after visiting the land of oz. You may like the new version of your h or he may be much like the old h w/a few new traits in the mix. Then again, you just may opt to stay single for a while and you just never know what life may have in store for you.
Ntl, all I know is this, you are a wonderful, kind and compassionate person who has a lot of class. Your h was an utter fool to leave you, much less....leave the country to escape his issues. You are going to a great 2009!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
