If you help with the house, is it to be near your h, or to help with the project? It'll be seen POSSIBLY, as pursuit. What if you paint a room, or something not easy to mess up, and do it on a day h isn't there? IF his reaction is positive, maybe you'll do more but I'd stay away from appearing to help with any expectations. Plus, "thanks" are sort of nice but not that mandatory since it is a mutual project, correct? I mean, if he's doing all the work, won't he feel it's reasonable of you to help? j
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