Hey Clayton!! Good too see you are posting! Yes, the holidays and really any day is what you make of it - right!?!
I think we all come to the realization that you did. No one is perfect & thus it cannot only be one persons fault. That was a big realization for me too. And realizing that everyone, everyone handles stress and problems differently.
Stay strong & keep learning
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)