"H was saying to sis. I am not oblivious to what is going on. It's not like I am walking around not knowing what is going on. I know others are questioning my priorities."

What does he think is going on? The million dollar question.

He sounds like a person who needs to be reassured, needs a boost in confidence and gets mad and says things to find out what it is you are really thinking/feeling while at the same time getting you or others upset.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19