Yes MWG I am looking forward to this new year as well. Does your h respond to you when you mention these things?

How do you know he is ready to hear them?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"