Jeff you are doing good! Don't worry about the comment, you don't really know what that means today.

My h said things like I can never come home. Now he is not home, but just said the other day he thought we could work things out and asked me to be patient with him.

I don't know if going dim or dark is the answer either. I did all that and found the best for my situation was to love unconditionally regardless of how h responded.

Be kind and loving. No R talks and just love from a distance. Trapt is right stay busy, so you don't have to think to much.

Aren't you guys really good at staying busy?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"