Jeff, Going dark is not always the answer, being able to have no expectations and not push her are.You are still pursuing her way too much.I know how hard it is not to, you want some answers, but they are not going to be anytime soon.

This time of the year is very hard. This is my second Christmas being seperated.But it does get easier, take one day at a time. hang in there Jeff, I will pray for you and your wife.

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w-44
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bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023