I don't think you could sue for abandonment, unless he stopped paying bills, etc.
What is your ratio on income? I mean does he make majority of money?
If you leave, it sets a bad precedent. A lot of times, a court will just follow what you've already done. It is a big boost to me that W moved out, I am almost guaranteed to keep the house completely on my own. Plus, when going through a D, one of the best things you can do for kids is keep them in their house, school, church. All things I have done, W hasn't. W is so self-absorbed she is just doing what she wants for herself, and has no idea how badly she is hurting herself in court. W moved out into an apartment while we were still under divorce restraining orders - we simply made our own agreement, and didn't tell the courts
I absolutely wouldn't leave! Maybe you should start doing all the laundry but his, and tell him to do his OWN! hee hee
