I know I can, but I don't know how to do it w/out changing or compromising who I am. For example, she tells me to go out after work and have drinks w/my co-workers. I like coming home to be with my family after work. My D4 is in day care all day long and after work I want to come home and see her. I also want to come home and see my W. I also don't really want to hang out with a bunch of my co-workers who don't share my beliefs and views. I'm a family man and that's how I like being. Any suggestions on how to GAL without changing your core values?
How about doing some volunteer work? Coaching some kids?
Also, things you can go do WITH your kids?
You shouldn't have to compromise your beliefs, so DON'T. But there ARE things you can go out and do, that don't involve sitting around the house pining away for her. Puppy
