Originally Posted By: Jeff3
Let me have it Ian know I may be over thinking this AGAIN!


Ummmmmm, ya think????

Look,the holiday season is a bitch to get through even without overreacting or over thinking things. If for nothing else, for yourself, stay out of your head dude.

"you are a nice guy, just not the guy for me"

Blah blah blah..... this is typical when they say something nice. They throw in a zinger so you remember they are still in control and still WAS. Anything nice they say they believe will be looked on by you as a they want you back comment. Who's fault is that??? Both of you, her for not having more faith, and you for over reacting and over thinking.

Get through the next week my friend and then it is back to work. As far as going dark, please wait until after this week and make your decisions about that when things are a tad bit less emotional.

Until then, find some things to do to have fun. Get out with your friends or something to keep yourself occupied please.....


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09