It was interesting. H was going down this path of Glam my goal is to do XYZ to make you happy.

I immediatly stopped my h and said h it's NOT your job to make me happen. If XYZ is something you want to do for yourself then do that, but don't do it because of me.

I am happy h and I am responsible for my own happiness. It's not your job to make me happy in our M. H was silent.

I believe my h trys to take on this burden of always wanting to please others. I am trying to show him that he doesn't have to take on that burden.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"