Yes MWG I have NO idea why he hangs onto the past and clings to it like it was yesterday. I have told him over and over to let the past go h.

He just says triggers happen and he is right back where he was 3 years ago.

Fear comes to mind though. Not sure if that is accurate. Fear that if he let go and we got together I could hurt him again. That is what I am thinking, not sure if it is correct.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"