Good BM that you are thinking into the future. Your h is lost right now and let him find his own way and you find yours.

Find a job that you love doing, since it consumes most of your day. Don't worry what your h is doing or thinking.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"