Why does your h hold on to the very things that make him so very angry such as your words from three years ago?
If he wants to move forward, he has to let go of the past and for some reason he does not want to do that.
We all say things we did not mean but we have to get past that.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19