Thanks for dropping by GB and FLTC. Hey, maybe I should adopt a monogram screen name just like you two, something like WTF! Yes, STBX is a pretty wild roller coaster ride but the good thing is that I don't try and figure it out anymore, when she's good that's great, when she's a bitch I try to stay clear unless we have to go at it about the kids. It was a bit of an emotional risk for me to sleep over Christmas Eve, afterall it was the house I lived in for 17 years and holds so many memories. I just felt I was emotionally stable enough to do so this year and it would be nice for the kids to wake up Christmas morning to Mom and Dad. I guess I'm lucky enough that we can still play family! Today, we are going to visit with a group of friends, I am taking my car so I can arrive and leave when I choose. It's such a strange world but it's the one I've got and I'll continue to do my best in it. Take care guys. Btw, I've heard that the scarf trick works great for STD's, you just wrap the scarf around...well, you know where!