Donna,

You sound really good. The holidays are the true test, and it seems like you came through them well. You are a wonderful woman with a lot of love to give. You are a great mom and your kids realize that. It's very obvious. Have you read the book "The Secret"? The moral of the story is that when you think positively, positive things happen in your life. A month after I read it, the woman I write about literally fell out of the sky. Things are going great with her. I really trust her, and she trusts me. We confided that we both actually were enamored with each other when we were both married, but....we were married, it turns out, neither happily.

Here's wishing you your own "Lightning in a Bottle" for 2009; not some guy living in hs mom's basement with a lazy eye, or some weird, esoteric poet/author (Ugh!), or a guy married to the "Twelve Step" Program and NOT you, but a genuine man who loves you for you!

FLTC