It was spectacular. She is a wonderful woman. It doesn't hurt that we both went through the same thing. Her husband had an affiar with a co-worker and then asked for a divorce. She's been alone for 8 years, and has lost herself in school and work. She is an ER nurse who loves the adrenaline. I love that. We are going to NYC this week with our two D16 who were good friends in middle school and S10. Her suggestion! It has been great. She has told me she is very excited to have me in her life, and that when she saw me for the first time at the gym in October, she realized immediately why she moved back to the old town. Weird, but true. She told me on Christmas Eve that she would always protect my heart. Pretty sweet, huh? I looked up and saw her and thought "How did THIS happen.?" As you recall, I told you all that I thought about her a lot over the past two years, and I even told her that.

I see her with a clear conscience. I did everything I could and more to try and save my marriage. I was loyal to my own detriment. It got me nothing.

Last edited by FLTC; 12/27/08 01:30 PM.