NO YOU ARE NOT LIKE MY SISTER....at least not the "powerless by choice" one. You are in charge of your life and you will "write the novel" of your life. Don't let life "happen" to you as you are NOT a victim...
How's that for a 2 x 4? Your h went wacko on you. He has been abducted by aliens and may not come back. Doesn't make YOU a loser. Makes him an alien...got it?
Good luck, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016