25 yrs I understand what you are saying, but their is a difference in trying to make it work with someone with severe addictions. When my ex and I separated, I was done. Did not want him in my life anymore.

Where here I am separated from my h, but would like to make our m work again. I don't believe in walking away just because the shoe doesn't fit anymore, but I do believe in reshaping and molding the shoe for a better fit, but this all takes time.

My h is in a crisis and I am allowing him to finish his crisis.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"