She told me the other night that one thing that would make her consider our relationship again is if she felt that I could be truly happy without her. She said that she feels like she's my life and that I'm to dependent on her and that makes her feel suffocated. CR
That's huge. I mean my H has never looked back I don't think. I think you should work on GALing and realizing that you can be happy without her. Happiness is from inside, you really can't get that from someone else. And obviously it makes your W pressured to feel like it's her job to make you happy. I would recommend some serious GALing. Find out what makes you happy and do it. PM has a great link she posted recently that has some great advice in it also. You can do this!!!
