I just posted to your old thread in newcomers. Your H sounds like my W a few months ago--he's probably feeling quite guilty, but that will only keep him around for so long. I don't want to be negative, but the stories are all so alike. My motto has become "hope for the best, but expect the worst." I don't know, maybe that's counterproductive. Do take my advice about the confronting, though. Be sure you have something absolutely concrete if you are going to do it. I learned that the hard way.
