So did you have a nice holiday? Did the kids enjoy their presents? Did you get something from them or your H even? My Mom asked me what I got from my former in-laws, I told her... nothing. Ex can do all the presents from the kids, I am out of that mess.
I should be getting the movie today too. They also sent Mama Mia!! Love it. So if I get that tonight, I will be driving the kids crazy singing along. Who doesn't like ABBA??
I'll let you know for sure if I get them today like I should.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
So did you have a nice holiday? Did the kids enjoy their presents? Did you get something from them or your H even? My Mom asked me what I got from my former in-laws, I told her... nothing. Ex can do all the presents from the kids, I am out of that mess.
Yes, kind of relaxing except for the cooking which turned out great. The kids loved their presents. They had less this year, but still all the stuff they really wanted. I did get a gift from the kids--a picture frame which of course H actually got and wrapped and everything. I agree, you do the presents for your family and he for his. Makes sense. I just can't believe he got you a Christmas present--that can't be usual post-divorce can it??? I didn't even get a Christmas present from H this year and we're still married!!! But I didn't get him one either of course. Karen
I don't know, he still got me a couple of presents last year too(I got him a few last year as well). It was nice I guess, but yes kind of stange. He is watching the girls since I am working today and my parents have the boys.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Ok, maybe I shouldn't be, but I'm totally po'd right now. I knew H's car broke down last weekend and D9 told me about it and said "OW rescued them". I just saw the kids off, they were in a car which was not H's, I'm 99% sure was OW. She pulled on my property, which he is no longer paying for btw. The disrespect for that is unbelievable, but with his past actions I'm sure shouldn't be surprising. If I confirm that was OW, easily enough just have to ask D9 whose white car that was, and it is her, what the heck should I do about it? And btw, if my H did this I'm thinking even lower of him than before which I didn't think possible!!! I mean my thought is to tell H if OW comes on my property again I'm going to kick her a** but that may not be the right thing to do??? Karen
Yes, you have every right to be mad. I have never seen OW in person, I would hate to be her if I ever do!! I would ask your stbx to show some respect and keep her away from your property, no need to flaunt the skank he has hurt you enough. Problem is you don't want to give him another button to push. You could always walk out to her car and politely ask her not to trespass on your property again. Oh this could go so many ways. Wish I had more options that wouldn't get you in trouble. I personally like the kick her a$$!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I would ask your stbx to show some respect and keep her away from your property, no need to flaunt the skank he has hurt you enough. Problem is you don't want to give him another button to push.
Yep. If I let him know it bothers me, then she'll probably be over at my house every time.
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You could always walk out to her car and politely ask her not to trespass on your property again.
I'm thinking this might be the best option, if I could pull it off. OW and H are really chicken shi*'s probably and would freak out if I did that. Probably drive off before I could get a word out. But the tendency to call her ho, skank, and everything might be too tempting. And I wouldn't want to hurt my kids who would be there. She and H I don't give a crap about....Is there a polite way to tell OW if I see her on my property again I will kick her a**??? I'm also thinking that if she was driving him around today she'll probably still be driving H and the kids around on Sunday when they are due back home. I could keep an eye out and go out and make sure the witch is not on my property. Just enforcing my boundaries, you know. Too much?
I mean my thought is to tell H if OW comes on my property again I'm going to kick her a** but that may not be the right thing to do??? 
Karen
Can't say you didn't provide a warning...