{{{Jon}}} I guess my question would be why wouldn't wife answer you about that, that would make me suspicious and I would want an answer yes or no..don't tell her you are freaky about it, just maybe don't want kids around it while they are there or something..use it to say you want to talk about some boundaries or something..
Funny you mention that about divorce/adultery/the Bible, because I mentioned that to my husband too the other day, but the Bible ALSO says that, if in your mind you lusted, you in reality have committed adultery..so, with that in mind, my hub, whether it's a EA or a PA (which it is AT LEAST an EA) has already committed adultery in my book. You know, I never really quite understood how that could be so when I'd read it in the Bible, but now, living it, I can see why and I actually said to my hub and to my mom when I was talking about it, whether it's a PA or EA doesn't matter..it's like he's sleeping with her even if he's not :P
Tawnya
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