BM who knows really..some MLCers stay at home have A and end A and chances are better iof they are home for R
With my kids I would probably just tell them dad is in crises we love him and prat for him some people go thru deep inner changes and get confused we will pray for him and do whatever we can to stand by him wheteher he was home or gone I would tell them its not about them dad is troubled now
I think it has helped my kids transition I know it is hard to move on whether they are here or out My H is living with OW I still find it difficult to let him go and totally move on never thought I would put up with A but here I am we are with U peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow