Thanks for your input - D8 has said stuff that completely isn't true, and I do believe some of it because of the conflicting morals she is getting. W obviously doesn't tell her that divorce is great, and OM is great - but my guess is that she doesn't want to believe that Mommy could do something so bad. Sigh, even when I did have the divorce talk, I told her I loved W very much, and that it didn't make her a bad person...
OM is not sleeping over, at least when kids are there - if I found that out, there would be WAR! Where I live, you can get an injunction to stop spouse from having overnight guests!
Your suggestions are always very thoughtful and well-received - I believe you have a lot of wisdom to share! Thank you so much for taking the time to share with me!
Like I always say, there are so many here who's situations are a lot worse than mine!
