Ok, I'm spewing here, but I need a 2x4 - I have already given myself several, but I should admit this, and be done with it.
As I said, when I asked W about OM coming over and spending the night, she got real weird about it, and wouldn't answer me. Up until now, she has said they were just friends, etc.
FYI - I am a Christian, and believe the only right way for divorce is adultery...
Anyway, I'm thinking now it is PA, and I told her "If you are having a physical relationship, just tell me so I can proceed with divorce, and feel right before God."
Yeah, I know - whiny and wimpy, sigh... She, of course, didn't respond.